I have never ever been on a date or to a New Year's eve party. I'm 56 years old and even when I had someone I was dating/sleeping with I was never asked out on New Year's. Nor have friends ever invited me out on this night. It has really bothered me most years and made me feel very lonely and sad.
This year I feel differently. I'm more confident in myself and what I want and this year being alone is fine with me.
I have not, however, set any intentions, or made a journey box, or created a vision board for what I want to achieve next year. I had every intention of setting my intentions but just procrastinated! Maybe that's one intention I need to focus on? Not putting off until tomorrow what I could do today?
I'm sitting here at the computer sipping my glass of delicious champagne with my cats at my feet and I feel utterly fine. At home and comfortable. It's freezing outside but warm and cozy inside.
So it's my intent this evening to set some goals down on virtual paper that I can refer back to during the year. I will create my vision board in the near future but I at least wanted to start out the new year with my ideas and intentions set.
1) I will have a date this year. It will be three years on January 3rd since I was last with someone so I think it's about time! I have posted my picture and profile on a dating website and I will be brave enough to contact someone soon.
2) I will improve my credit score so that I can purchase a townhouse or condo. I will work with my money coaches to achieve this goal. I want to buy a place that I can sell in 10 years or so to buy my retirement home at the ocean or in Port Townsend. Barring I haven't met and married someone from goal #1 who has different ideas about our future!
3) I will have a positive outlook on life and continue to share my vision with others through my blogs. I will continue to pursue my pay-it-forward project and work on my website with the end in mind of making money so that I can follow dreams #1 and #2 anywhere I choose to live and with whomever I choose to live with.
4) I will work with my coaches following their advice to the best of my ability as they have "been there and done that". That includes using some techniques that have already been given to me in pursuing goal #1.
5) I will continue my weight loss journey. I have been somewhat out of control during the holidays but start the diet back up on January 5th and I'm really looking forward to it. Ultimate goal is to lose 70 more pounds so that I can look good for my new honey from goal #1 and live a healthy and happy retirement as in goals #2 and 3.
6) I will possibly...and I do mean possibly...write a book or at least begin a book. I have no idea how to start or how this will be accomplished but I sure want to try.
I'm not going to worry about "how" I will achieve these goals. I'm just going to have faith that they will come true. I'm enclosing my "Note from the Universe" from Mike Dooley for today. So so appropriate!
Kat, soon the new year starts, so now is a great time to:
1. Wipe the slate clean.
2. Focus upon what you really want.
3. Chart your course. Right?
Well... only if you want to risk having to repeat these steps for the same wishes next year! Maybe this is splitting hairs, but here's an adventurous alternative:
1. Give thanks that life is... just as it is (and that it's been... just as it's been). Because of it, you're now "READY."
2. Define what you want in terms of the end result. Don't worry about the hows, or even the course. KNOW that what you want is ALREADY yours in spirit, by divine LAW, just focus on the certainty of this ownership, understand it, claim it, and "it will be on earth, as it is in heaven (spirit)."
3. LET THE UNIVERSE show you the way via your impulses and instincts that appear as you take inspired action. Don't worry that your first steps seem silly or futile. And if you don't know what to do, do anything! Go! Get busy! Do not insist on intermediary successes, only upon the end result.
2011 is going to be your year (it already is) ~The Universe

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